*Although we wrote this post together, we have chosen to present the following through Mom’s eyes.
Mom's Story: Journey with Prescription Drugs (Part 1)
My world shifted on March 25, 2010—the day my daughter Nikki was prescribed her first mental health medication. I didn’t know it then, but that moment would divide our lives into a before and an after.
Back then, we truly believed we were stepping into something hopeful. We thought this was the beginning of healing, of clarity, of a better path forward.
But for my daughter… for our family… it wasn’t. Her journey toward wellness took a turn none of us expected, and everything changed in ways we could never have imagined.
For years, promises were made, inaccurate information was passed along, and false hope was encouraged by Nikki’s healthcare providers. Looking back, our trust in the healthcare system made us vulnerable. We were naïve, and that naivety led me to believe that whatever a medical professional told us had to be accurate.
The truth is harder to accept: the person prescribing the medication doesn’t always know everything about the drug—or how it may affect the individual taking it.
Awareness to medication prescriptions
Long before Nikki’s journey with prescription medications began, I had a conversation with another parent at her elementary school. She worked for a company that distributed pharmaceutical information to medical offices. Curious about part‑time work, I asked whether the job required a degree or any special training. She told me she had neither. The more questions I asked, the more hesitant she became, pulling back from the details. Something about that exchange didn’t sit right with me, and I never pursued the job—but the conversation stayed with me.
Without realizing it, that moment became my first clue about how medications are actually promoted and prescribed.
Years later when Nikki was on mental health prescription medications, I watched a documentary about the opioid crisis that further opened my eyes to the broader world of prescription medications. It walked through how one particular opioid painkiller was developed, marketed, prescribed, and distributed—and it laid bare the forces that fueled the crisis.
Even though the documentary was only based on real events, with some details dramatized, the overall picture reflected a deeper truth. What struck me most was how healthcare providers received the information they relied on when prescribing that medication. Something about it clicked for me, and I couldn’t help but connect it to other prescription drugs as well.
As Nikki went deeper into the world of mental health prescription drugs, those early connections resurfaced. We quickly learned to recognize the pharmaceutical reps walking into the medical offices. At the same time, we noticed the steady stream of free samples Nikki’s counselor kept on hand—the same medications she routinely prescribed. We also recognized that the information being given regarding the prescriptions were straight out of a pharmaceutical commercial.
And the most alarming awareness we obtained was in reference to the kickbacks some healthcare providers received for prescribing a particular drug.
The realization we have learned—often the hard way—is that a healthcare provider may not know everything about the medications they prescribe. This can truly be alarming. But the fact is how certain individuals react may be different than the normal reaction.
While checking with the medication guidelines and pharmacist is appropriate, the prescriber should also have a thorough understanding of the medication, especially as it relates to the unique circumstances of their patient.
The reality is that, in many situations, it falls on the individual to ask questions, research and be aware.
The following are some crucial steps to take before considering a medication treatment plan:
First, verify your diagnosis and treatment plan
Take necessary blood work to rule out any pre-existing conditions, such as thyroid disease, hormonal imbalance, etc.
Research different treatment plans.
Second, verify the facts about the medication you are prescribed
Request the medication guide
Check with your pharmacist
Call the pharmaceutical company directly
Check reliable sources such as medlineplus.gov, FDA site, drug manufacturer site
Is the prescription drug FDA approved for your diagnosis or is your provider using the drug Off-Label?
What is the meaning of Off-Label?
Was the prescription drug FDA approved originally for another diagnosis?
How long has the prescription drug been used for your diagnosis?
What is the complete history of the prescription drug?
What are all of the side effects of the prescribed drug, even uncommon?
Is the prescribed drug a controlled substance?
Can your prescribed drug result in withdrawal when discontinuing?
What are the withdrawal symptoms of the prescribed drug?
Third, verify how the medication can and should be taken?
Should you take with or without food?
Does it matter what time of day you should take the prescribed drug?
Does it matter if time is exact? (Everyday at 10:00 am)
Can I cut pill, chew, or break apart in any way? Note: Even though a pill is scored, doesn’t mean it can be cut. Unfortunately this may not be recognized by the medical prescriber.
In part 2 of Journey with Prescription Drugs, you will receive more informational steps.
Our goal, by telling our journey, is to provide you with the information we did not have.
Information needed, so you can live a healthier and happier lifestyle.
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Note: All information in “Nikki’s Story and Mom’s Story” are based on detail journals covering seven years of Nikki’s life on prescription drugs.
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